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According to US/People/Sufjan Beat, Death Cab For Cutie’s frontman proposed to the She half of She & Him before Christmas and she said yes man (sorry). We’re happy for them (sort of!), but look forward to your indie wedding jokes in the comments. (Via Rawkblog, pic by a35mmlife at Unconventional ’08.)

Comments (179)
  1. owencafe  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    ah! …another reason to get drunk…

  2. ah! …another reason to get stoned.

  3. Greg  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    No wonder Death Cab’s music has started to dwindle, you can’t make sad, sappy music when you are dating a sweet slice of Indie Heaven like her.

  4. they make an adorable couple. good luck to them.

    • loser  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

      Hey toyourdismay… Is that avatar a picture of Ben, not that is clearly Amelie, wait, is that Ben? I am so confused….?!

    • Black Sunshine  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

      I just wonder what musical endeavors this is going to take us on.

  5. astro  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    man. i just listened to the she & him album for the first time in a while and ate up everything zooey deschanel sang. now i have to go vomit it all up.

  6. Chris  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    Hopefully she knows that contrary to popular belief, his band’s most recent album is waaaay better than hers.

  7. Jane  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 +1

    Congrats to them! I hope he gets fat again.

  8. Faith  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    I didn’t even know they were dating. Shows how up to date I am.
    Best of luck to them both. They’ll make some interestingly creative children.

  9. I challenge Ben Gibbard to an honor du-el!!!

  10. Paul Ramon  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    It’s always great when two insufferablely precious people get together.

  11. Well, this MUST be the reason she wasn’t receptive to my advances.

  12. In the immortal words of Eric Cartman:

    “Son-uva BITCH!!”

  13. ab  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    Wow. Is she the one responsible for his new skinnyjeans look? Had no idea they were even dating, but best of luck to these two crazy kids. Ben is actually a pretty funny guy, so kudos to her.

  14. Are you sure he didn’t mean to propose to Katy Perry?

  15. they were dating?

  16. I didn’t know they were dating either. I still bet M. Ward was having a piece of that on the side.

  17. she should have worked the m. ward/jm james angle. obviously.

  18. cuteoverload.com

  19. Jesus  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    I’ll never be able to hear “Soul Meets Body” again without picturing Ben Gibbard jizzing in his pants with the girl from ‘Elf.’

  20. Ben  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    God damnit. You failed me Matt.

    It was supposed to be you!

  21. Steven  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    Noooo, Zooey was my soulmate, and she doesn’t even know it!

    I’ll get you Ben Gibbard of Death Cab For Cutie and The Postal Service! I’ll get you! (By the way man love your music, and yours as well Zooey!)

  22. seamus  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    good thing she is getting married and singing because that girl CANNOT act her way out of a paper bag…

  23. She didn’t even tell me she was dating anyone… I hope it doesn’t cause a rift in the engagement. I’ll have to ask ben if he is ok with what happened.

  24. mike jones  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    this is like his 6th marriage..

  25. Jessica N.  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    Ben Folds has been married four times!?!? What is he the Elizabeth Taylor of indie rock? That was a horrible joke.

  26. Christian  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    i thought we were cool, ben…

  27. domestic bliss  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    more like ben GIBBARF.

  28. I guess she was Ben’s prize for winning a Roy Orbison lookalike contest…

  29. It Came From Culture City   |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    i guess she found her Soul Mate on a Death Cab for Cuite

  30. no, fuck that

  31. grover  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    wait. these two are dating?

  32. Joe  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    Hope they have a great marriage and stuff blah blah, but if she dumps him in a few years we are gonna get some great Death Cab songs outta that.

  33. this sucks  |   Posted on Dec 29th, 2008 0

    Worst news I’ve heard all year.

  34. johnnytantan  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    new postal service album?

  35. yeah, who wouldn’t want to possess that heart (*ba-da-BING!*). But seriously, now that next Postal Service album will have a shot at sickening romantic creativity. Just when all my dentist said all my cavities were gone…

    Plus, get ready for She & Him vol 2: She & Him… & Him?

  36. dammit. well there goes half my dreams.

    the other half of course being, marrying zooey and becoming a jedi.

  37. bornonthesideofahill  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    so does this mean zooey’s new band will be She & him..wait i mean him. not him? i was kinda secretly pulliing for m. ward. they make cute pictures. but i suppose i can accept another awkwardly cute indie rock..urh…well okay alternative singer for zooey.

  38. They make a cool couple

  39. volume-addict  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    I guess the city of Ballard will be gaining a new part-time resident?

  40. The most important part of all this is what their celebrity couple name will be.

    Booey Gibbanel or Zen Deschbard?

    I like Zen Deschbard. Or maybe Booey Deschbard.

  41. disgruntled hipster no. 416  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Additionally, I second the challenge to a duel.

    Formality’s sake:

    *gloveslap*

    Mr. Gibbard, you have besmirched my honor, sir! Pistols at twilight! The young Brian Urlacher will be my second.

    I’ll follow YOU into the dark.

  42. mr.walla  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    AND they ALREADY have a sex tape up!

    http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=tE_AL-2Qjwo&feature=related

  43. Lindsey  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    She’s engaged to Hunter not Ben

  44. Deezey  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    I guess I’ll have to settle for that cellist from Ra Ra Riot now. But Zooey, please remember those Steve Perry lyrics….”If he ever hurts you/ true love won’t desert you. You know I still love you…Though we touched and went our seperate ways.

  45. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  46. Whether it be Gibbard or the bassist of AFI, she sure has a thing for untalented people in the music business. She should hook up with Tim Harrington (is he single?) or Ghostface (who would fuck her regardless if he is or not).

  47. Lovely couple, best wishes for them!

  48. oh…Zooey…you closed the door
    On so many men who would have loved you more

  49. Dan  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Who would’ve thunk that a girl that pretty would be into such huge, huge muttonchops? That’s how he landed her, right? I’m gonna start growing mine out right now.

  50. Neal  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Will they play Cath…. at the wedding. That would be meta.

  51. radio zero  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    no doubt…these two will reproduce some very talented, beautiful, artistic children….who won’t pay your children any attention whatsoever….

    • Greg  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

      The kids may be talented, but how can you say they will be attractive. I love Gibbard, but he is definitely marrying up in this situation. He is not a looker. Maybe their offspring can add to the band Smoosh.

      • anon  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

        Hmmm, I’d say you haven’t seen him recently. Ben Gibbard is lookin good…
        But yeah, he’s still marrying up in terms of looks. A little.

  52. hatchbuddy  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    this cant be true this cant be true.
    its not true. im destined to marry ben, really!
    NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
    my indie fangirl heart is broken….

  53. Nooo!
    Don’t ?follow into the dark? that chubby lout!

  54. juanita von mendezarro  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    that chick looks crazy. like laverne and shirley gone stupid. i don’t know her, and i don’t care. indie-ignorance. and ben gibbard should be happy to marry anyone. who gives a crap?????????

    REALLLYYY!>?!?!!?!?

  55. jim walker  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Good luck to them. Absolutley love zooey

  56. I’d bet the farm that very few guys who post on this site have hot girlfriends.

    • Hey! I used to! I swear!

    • I’m not sure what this assumption is based on, this isn’t a World of Warcraft forum…

      • Agreed. From my experience. there are just as many female indie fans as male ones ? probably more. And most would qualify as “hot,” at least in my book; there’s a certain sort of niche of cute, fair-skinned twee girls who knit and most likely wear glasses and listen to indie music. And generally date the skinny dudes with slightly scraggly facial hair who also listen to indie music and maybe post on this forum.

  57. Me  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    ^She is indeed heavenly (Joan, that is). I just married her!

  58. Marc  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    GIIIIBAAAAAAARD! *shakes fist in air*

    Yet another relationship opportunity ruined by Ben Gibbard.

  59. Who cares? More stories about Kanye West plz…

  60. Kasper  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    … so they’ve been dating in secret? Can people still do that? Are the gossip blogs not doing their jobs!? What the hell?!!? I AM PISSED

  61. oohkee  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Doh! I knew I should have asked her sooner! :(

  62. Jim  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Who the hell is Joan and who the hell cares? Ben and Zooey are adorable!

  63. Eliza  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Well damn, and here I was assuming she and Jason Schwartzman were still together…

    • Lauren  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

      Yeah, I thought he was still with his long term live in girlfriend. Since when have these two been dating?

      That song “You Can Do Better Then Me,” is starting to make a whole lot more sense…

  64. No matter what anyone says, I always like everything Ben Gibbard does. But I do NOT support him marrying Zooey Deschanel! I was supposed to! I’m so sad! My heart is broken….. I guess I will have to go listen to Death Cab….. Dammit!!

  65. joker's lady  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    is this for real?

  66. hilary  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    too weird. too fucking weird. ive been fans of both of them for too long, this is fucked up. also, US and People reporting on it. that is also fucked up

  67. Nick Jonas (spy)  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Who said they are going to have kids?

    Not if I can help it! Anyone know where they’re staying?

  68. eric  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    it’s like all of the unfunny, boring, desperate commenters all came out at once!

  69. 3 Day eternity  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Is she the one that sings that “baby with the quuen of hearts” song or the one who does the yougurt commercial … both?

  70. SAL  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    All my dreams of a She & Him wedding dashed! :’(

  71. Scott  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    Now we know what you can do with a sentimental heart.

  72. Who the fuck is Zooey Deschanel?

  73. Christopher Martin  |   Posted on Dec 30th, 2008 0

    my favorite part is that zooey looks as surprised as we are by this.

  74. For the record, in less than twelve hours this post has become the 38th most discussed story of the year.

    Time to do some re-counting, guys.

  75. what is wrong with people? just be happy for the cute indie couple! they’re gonna have a cute indie wedding with cute indie children and cute indie everything. why is the end of the world?

  76. Ryan Wilkins  |   Posted on Dec 31st, 2008 0

    looks like another beautiful, talented girl that is attracted to a wuss who wears tight jeans and is about as manly as a tuna salad…..I don’t think death cab for cutie are indie, i think they are emo-queer….go drink a beer ben and wear some clothes that fit you

    • First of all, who says he aspires to be “manly”?

      Secondly, I don’t really see image as being any sort of significant part of Death Cab’s appeal. So who cares if he wears pants that are too tight?

      Third, have you ever listened to “We Have the Facts and We’re Voting Yes” and/or read the lyrics? Death Cab used to be an amazing indie band. Not sure if they could really be called “indie” any more and, true, “Plans” was kinda lame, but their latest album is pretty great, so they’re still cool in my book.

      Also: Does the term “emo” still even qualify as a genre of music any more? I think it’s kind of 5 years ago by now, sort of like “alternative” is at least so 10 years ago.

      • Allie  |   Posted on Apr 6th, 2009 0

        I agree with makebeleaves, genres suck. And Ryan, if you think death cab is emo-queer then you must be one of those guys who thinks simple plan is cool. Sorry if that offends you, its just an observation of your lame one.

  77. this may be like brangelina to the indie scene….

  78. looks like he’s going to ‘posses’ her ‘sentimental heart’

    but I’m still kinda bummed, zo-way should be mine.

  79. seattle wattle  |   Posted on Dec 31st, 2008 0

    FUCK BEN. What happened to Joan?! She was fucking amazing, beautiful and talented. He’s a fucking asshole to ever let her go. Zooey can cure cancer and I still wouldn’t watch one of her lame ass movies. Ben-man you seriously fucked UP.

    • kate wa  |   Posted on Jan 1st, 2009 0

      Wow. Someone obviously can’t handle not being in the spotlight and is trying to save face. Someone should probably get over it. Someone should be happy that Ben is happy and focus on her own life with her husband or fiancee or whoever.

      • somebody who knows what he's talking about  |   Posted on Jan 1st, 2009 0

        Hey Kate! Let’s not make comments that imply that you know something you don’t. Because you’re incorrect.

    • Maciheartsu  |   Posted on Jan 1st, 2009 0

      This sounds like jealousy! Wait, I would probably be jealous too!

    • ME, US IN BTWN  |   Posted on Jan 1st, 2009 0

      Hiller is tits.

    • I just looked her up. She is beautiful [(but she doesn't mean a thing to me ...) JK!!!] and seems super cool and talented and stuff.

      But so is Zooey. So way to go Ben! You definitely know how to pick ‘em! (And Zooey apparently doesn’t have bad taste in guys either.)

      I feel so oddly proud right now.

    • seattle wattle  |   Posted on Jan 3rd, 2009 0

      awww ms.hiller is super sweet! love that picture too

  80. Whats with Stereogum and using ugly pictures in posts?

    • opiskin  |   Posted on Jan 3rd, 2009 0

      You’d make that face, too, if Ben “Gobble-Gobble” Gibbard had his pinky in your bum.

  81. good for tham thail be a good copple

  82. Lara  |   Posted on Jan 1st, 2009 0

    I would jizz on the spot if that happened. I’ve been waiting forever for the next album

  83. had no clue they were dating…
    nonetheless…uh, good luck to them, although ben gibbard is kinda weird.

  84. Who cares? I hope Ben gets Jenny Lewis knocked up next

  85. randomrandomrandom  |   Posted on Jan 2nd, 2009 0

    Getting engaged less than 2 weeks after your ex long time girlfriend gets married seems kind of strange, but okay.

    Zooey is cute and is my girl crush, I’m kind of jealous.

  86. Shawn  |   Posted on Jan 2nd, 2009 0

    but Ben can’t be happy, cause his songs are better when he’s sad and heart broken…

    mmmm Zooey…

    Synapse to synapse…the possibility’s thin

  87. can'thearmyeyes  |   Posted on Jan 2nd, 2009 0

    she & him vol. 2 will be full of musical tension.

  88. This is almsot but not quite as barfy as when Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett. Except Lovett has some talent and Death Cab for Cuties is the worst band ever in the universe of all time.

  89. Seriously guys, I’m gay.

  90. One helluva couple they made?

    She’s way cute.

  91. Bas  |   Posted on Jan 3rd, 2009 0

    Oh well… There’s still her sister:

  92. Yipes Oly  |   Posted on Jan 3rd, 2009 0

    This Joan girl’s “friends” sure are doing a great job of making her seem sad and desperate.

  93. Eddie Spaghetti  |   Posted on Jan 3rd, 2009 0

    Not sure if it goes “Bah, bah” but whatever Zooey’s hearing is the sound of settling…

  94. I’m a big fan of Zooey’s work. She was really great in the movie “Elf”.

  95. J.C.  |   Posted on Jan 4th, 2009 0

    Zooey who? So that’s not Linda Ronstadt circa 1978?

  96. Monkee Melt  |   Posted on Jan 4th, 2009 0

    You’re not going to see a Janis on the cover of Nylon magazine anytime soon… think about it… and what the f is Jennifer Aniston still doing around?

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