Josh Homme Verbally Abuses Fan
This happened at the Queens Of The Stone Age set during the Norwegian Wood Festival in Oslo over the weekend. A rowdy dumbass threw something at Josh Homme, who was apparently battling a fever. He was not having it. What followed was a profane, slur-laced tirade so intense I can't do it justice by transcribing it. That's why we have YouTube.
Kid probably learned his lesson. Though Josh could use some lessons of his own.
Posted at 3:49 PM by Scott in Video
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well, that was extensive.
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wow, homophobic and sexist!
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lessons? like maybe not throwing around homophobic epithets cuz he got pissed at a little kid for throwing crap at a festival show.
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He tore some drunk asshole a new one at their show at the Moon, only he did it without calling him a "faggot." He did imply that the guy and his friend were going to fuck in the parking lot after they got kicked out. The douchebag was knocking people around and pushing over girls and Homme finally had enough.
The best line from that night was when he said, "How small must your penis be? Do you jack off in the shower with your mom's tweezers?"
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I was at that show. and one of the girls who were pushed around. but josh yells at someone at every show
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So I'm getting the impression that Josh Homme has some obsession with penises (or the lack thereof.)
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What a fucking jackass. Ian MacKaye always told off his audience when they behaved like this kid did, but he'd never call them "faggots" or "pussies"... He knew how to rise above. Josh Homme doesn't understand the concept of rising above.
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I saw them open for the Smashing Pumpkins at Tramps in NY in '99 and Homme did nearly the same thing with a heckler. It was quite funny. He's had 9 years to practice and seems to have sharpened this skill.
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Yeah, he could have put the guy in his place without sounding like a homophobic frat-wad. I kind of lost some respect for the guy.
Anyone else feel the same way about calling someone a retard?
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not at all.
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Retardation is defined as "less than normal intellectual competence." I think that's the case here. "Faggot" is clearly derogatory and has no other use in the English language.
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Faggot: (fāg'ət)
n.
1. A bundle of twigs, sticks, or branches bound together.
2. A bundle of pieces of iron or steel to be welded or hammered into bars.
tr.v. fag·ot·ed also fag·got·ed, fag·ot·ing also fag·got·ing, fag·ots also fag·gots
1. To bind into a fagot; bundle.
2. To decorate with fagoting.
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haha! classy man
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you are definitely wrong.
re·tard
–verb (used with object)
1. to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.
–verb (used without object)
2. to be delayed.
–noun
3. a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance, as in a machine.
4. Slang: Disparaging.
a. a mentally retarded person.
b. a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way: a hopeless social retard.
5. Automotive, Machinery. an adjustment made in the setting of the distributor of an internal-combustion engine so that the spark for ignition in each cylinder is generated later in the cycle.
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the kid could be a retard, y'know. where is Matt Dillon when we need him? he's got a keen eye for retards.
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He's so... eloquent?
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I was in Oslo this weekend and ran into Lou Barlow in the park outside this festival. I said “hi” and he told me to suck his cock.
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What a douche bag!!! That clown can't get his name in the news for making a hit record. OK the kid threw something, and then this moron goes off on a tirade. What a classless act..Too bad he didn't kid the kid that would have been a nice lawsuit..
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kind of bums me out that he had to go the homophobe route. Queens are such an underrated band, and an amazing live act. maybe that's why they don't get as much respect as they (musically) deserve.
that being said, i wouldn't fuck with homme. anybody remember when he beat tim armstrong's ass?
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What a douche bag!!! That clown can't get his name in the news for making a hit record. OK the kid threw something, and then this moron goes off on a tirade. What a classless act..Too bad he didn't kid the kid that would have been a nice lawsuit..
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Ironic or telling or whatever that Josh calls the kid a "faggot" after saying, "I'll still butt-fuck you in front of all your friends."
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i swear I've heard that exact monologue before... on the playground right before that beef-neck bully beat people up and took their lunch money. Doesn't matter what the kid did; it's all very meat-headed if you ask me...
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That was kind of disgusting. He's not even that talented. I mean, if that was somebody who mattered, it might be permissible. Wait, no it wouldn't. Using "faggot" is inexcusable. Shame on that "frat-wad," as poops nicely put it.
I wish somebody had said Queers of the Bone Age back at him to let him know what it sounds like.
p.s. gay I am.
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Yeah, Josh Homme is just a dick. There were a million better ways than that to deal with the incident. Crowds are always full of morons that throw shit on stage, get used to it.
I suppose this episode just symbolizes how shitty the band's music has gotten in recent years as well. They're such a horrible live band anyway. Not even worth seeing anymore unfortunately.
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There are ways for a performer to get his point across without sounding like a complete asshole. Josh Homme didn't employ any of them. He's a complete a$$hole and totally unprofessional. And let's be clear, he's not some teenager in a garage punk band who can get away with being a moron. He's a grown man and a professional performer playing big crowds at festivals. Just because it's a "creative" job doesn't give him license to be a prick to a kid. What a loser. I definitely have no respect for a dick like that. But he probably doesn't care - he's clearly a self-indulgent, egomaniac.
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The man obviously went to the Asshole State College of English Language and Literature. Now I know why I always thought that Queens Of The Stone Age were such bookworms.
This is how you do it:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=wd4fzqSmU3o
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I've never like this band, there nowhere near as good as they think they are and this just proves to me that they are wankers!
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Oh get over yourselves. He was sick, tired, pissed off and just had shit thrown at him while trying to put on a show. So he called the kid a faggot, so what? When we're in a state we say things out of anger to try and land a verbal punch. If you know anything about Josh Homme you'd know that he's far from homophobic, so save the politically correct bullshit.
The kid totally deserved what he got. I've never understood people who throw things at bands when they're trying to play. It's totally messed up and they should be blacklisted from festivals.
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Right there with you, Tricky. I can't believe these sanctimonious, holier-than-thou responses that I'm reading. I don't want to waste any space defending Homme, but I can certainly see why he snapped. And please don't use the dumbass logic that this incident makes QOTSA a bad live band. These guys absolutely kill live.
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yeah judging from liberal nature of his entire career's worth of lyrics and interviews, josh is far from homophobic, tho he should probably keep his slurs in check when he gets angry because it speaks pretty loudly against the rest of his quotables
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respectful.
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I'd like to let this slide since Homme was running a 100-and-whatever-degree-temperature and probably felt like absolute ass up there, but since he's got a history of doing this, it just makes him look really small.
The bottle thrower here was, what, 12? And he's yelling at him, calling him terrible names, and telling him he's going to kick his ass in front of thousands of people?
Maybe Queens should do a tour with Limp Bizkit and Korn- because this made Homme look like a total Durst-bag.
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Wow. It's hard to believe that people are actually defending this douche. Perhaps the word "faggot" can be used to comical effect, but what Josh Homme did was assault. Not simple assault, but aggravated assault with the assistance of security. The video evidence is enough to land him in county jail in the United States.
Tricky, people like you need to stop being apologists for those prone to violent outbursts that culminate in some kid getting his face kicked in. Unless you're every bit as big a fuckwit as Homme is.
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The best part is that he says "while i fuck you in the ass" or whatever, and then he proceeds to call this kid a faggot. The guy has some serious anger management issues, imagine how he'll be when he's in his 70's, haha.
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is "faggot" really that offensive? a lot of you guys have commented on this being the most offensive part of his verbal assault... I dunno, maybe its an american thing but in UK "faggot" is used pretty tamely. surely "cunt" is the most inexcusable, non?
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Speaking as a liberal and an American, I can safely say that the majority of liberal Americans like to be politically correct assholes and cry about everything. I'm in the minority on this particular issue.
Conor Oberst says faggot. I've heard Malkmus drop the word faggot. Believe it or not, but a good majority of your indie rock superstar idols utilize the term. I can pretty much guarantee you that when most people say "faggot" in a situation akin to this (where he is not using the word faggot to put a gay person or the gay culture down) the last thing on our mind is hating gay people. When using, we're trying to insult and aggravate someone and faggot has a strong connotation, thus it being a popular word to use in such situations.
Get over yourselves. Christ.
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Surely you can understand that some people, particularly gay men who have been on the receiving end of a throaty "Faggot!" call, don't like the term 'faggot' because many who use the term are seeking to express not only their inability to accept the sexual orientation of another person, but their blatant repugnance towards homosexuals, or more specifically gay men.
In the instances you're talking about it's a different context, sure, but it's the same word that for the most part is the product of discrimination in our society. I'd love to be called a "cheery faggot," but instead, using it as an insult, like Homme did/does, perpetuates the discriminatory connotations of the word for the gay people who may be lucky enough to be on the receiving end.
But, yeah, sticks and stones, people....
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"Gay men" also has discriminatory connotations. Maybe you mean "negative" connotations?
And seriously, if you've grown up as a homosexual, an offhand reference like this should be easy to laugh off as what it is. Surely you would have grown a thick skin and be somewhat accustomed to callously-used epithets. Hell, all you need to do is grow up in a small redneck town and not be a good ol' boy and you'll get used to being called a "fag" pretty fast.
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also like to add that, yeah sure, this is verbal assault on homme's part but the kid throwing shit at him could also be catergorised as such, no matter how "normal" it is to do so at a gig.
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This is a rock and roll people... that what rockers do go on tirades, and I loved it! Every minute of it! Even the homophobic slur and I'm gay! Seriously this is what a true rocker do from time to time, plus he was feverish, making him even sexier!
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Hey Tricky. "So he called a kid a faggot, so what?" Well, idiot, he just legitimized all the backwards-baseball cap bigoted dicks in the crowd that are gonna go to school the next day and call a bunch of already fucked up, marginalized kids "faggot" because their Rock Douche Hero made it OK do so on a BIG FUCKING STAGE. What an embarrassing little tantrum by a priveleged egotistical fuck.
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I wish people would stop making fun of us backwards baseball cap-wearing dicks. Just because we are different, doesn't mean we don't hurt.
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what he did was wrong by calling that kid those names and embarasing him , so what if he threw something on stage and josh homme didn't like it, he shouldn't take out his own problems on other people. what that kid needs to do is sue his a$$ and the racial slurs don't help him out ....jmo.
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Seriously, you are all a bunch of pussy faggots. Grow some balls and stop being such liberal pc douchebags, it's rock and roll. It's all about being a fucking meathead. Go listen to radiofag, vampire fag, faghunter or something mildly queer like that if you want some music to massage your vaginas to.
- Sincerely, Big Gay All
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the guy is pure rock.
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the guy is pure rock.
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Whatever happened to Concert Etiquette? When my older, more hip sister allowed me to attend shows, she made sure I followed or at least was aware of some important guidelines. The most important was the one in which I do nothing to embarrass her. I fucked that one up more than once, but I never threw shit at the band, and I played college baseball, it would have been fun trust me!!! I had respect, if not for the band, than for Rock N' Roll. For anyone who has ever tried to perform in front of people, it's not always easy. And on a personal level I've had a lot of good times courtesy of Josh and Family, so I can't say I feel bad about some punk kid being called a few harsh names. He needs to change his approach, he learned a lesson that day, the hard way!!! No pun intended. HA HA !!!
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This is news?
And seriously... are you all *really* that sensitive? 'Cause I call bullshit.
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Anton Newcombe does the same(Brian Jonestown Massacre):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_fTiNK8Wkc
Jack White Vs a Moron:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7sfk5rS-IeM
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Axl Rose vs. Fans (Same thing) - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z3o0xEuUNX0
Yawn....go back to work people. This happens all the time. Part of it. If you don't like it, don't throw shit.
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I've seen the picture of the lollipop sticking out of David Bowie's eyeball from when he played Oslo so I don't pass judgment on Mr Homme. Those Norwegian bastards have got some great aim...
http://i31.tinypic.com/wt6suw.jpg
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When someone angers me, I simply say 'Good day sir!' w/ a sharp inflection and walk away. If that does not suffice, and things move to the physical, I shout, 'Have at thee foul ruffian, this behavior shall not stand! I shall teach you a thing or two forthwith!". Then I crack his f@cking skull open w/ a crowbar and curb him...but never, EVER, do I use the word 'faggot'. That would be beyond the pale.
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I don't know where to post a new comment on a different topic. But about the topic on Kanye West being booed, MAN, DO I HAVE A STORY TO TELL YOU ABOUT THE RUSH CONCERT ON MAY 6 '08 at the Los Angeles Nokia Theatre! Many of their songs KEPT GOING IN AND OUT OF KEY THROUGHOUT THEIR ENTIRE SHOW, AND I AM TOTALLY PISSED OFF ABOUT IT! It's amazing there wasn't an audience uprising as I'm sure they all heard what I heard and I wonder why RUSH only got a luke warm response. They were just terrible! And to think I paid $340 for a pair of tickets. Whoever it was that said they're no longer a Kanye West fan, WELL I'M NO LONGER A RUSH FAN. I may continue following them whenever they do the next studio album BUT I NEVER WANT TO SEE THEM IN PERSON AGAIN...EVER!
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What the fuck are you babbling about you retarded faggot?
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Dickman FINALLY has an account!
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That was funny, scary, AND sad. WOW!!! I'm all tired out now from the emotional rollercoaster.
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to the apologists claiming "this is rock" - ha ha, what a bunch of sorry, nostalgic losers. rock as rebellion has been dead for 30 years. music is a business. this numbnuts was at a huge festival and he's in his mid-thirties. this is pure commercial music - there's no "rock" in this kind of rock.
like i said, if this had been a teenage garage band at a tiny bar, that's one thing. you expect that. but for some has-been loser playing a big festival to act like he did is unprofessional at best and simply pathetic and sad at worst.
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did you hear that song? im surprised only one person threw shit.
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i agree with that. queens have been shit ever since they fired oliveri.
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seems like we have a bunch of uptight nuns on stereogum. This is fucking rock and roll faggots. If you want to be a jackass and throw shit you should only expect a ass fucking.
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Why is this posted? Who cares? This isn't E! magazine.
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wow, fuck him! what a colossal shithead. I had no idea, oh well, I've never bought or listened to his fucking pussy fucking dickless turd with no friends faggot music anyways, so what the fuck ever.
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Why is this posted? Who cares? I think it said "Stereogum" in the banner, not E! magazine
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QOTSA should name their next album something like, "Turn It Up, Faggot." lol.
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No, more like "Turn It Up, Fucking Little Chickenshit Cunt Fucking Dickless Turd Faggot Pussy Motherfucker"
or "Lullabies To Buttfuck"... sounds more fitting
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hehe, yeah, I gotta laugh at all of the retards here being all like "hey, this is rock!' - yeah, you know what else is rock? some dumb kid throwing something at you from the audience. who's the fuckin pussy here? fever or no, dude needs to grow up, he's mentally about 14.
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so its cool to throw shit? If someone threw shit at you (which would not happen because no one gives a fuck about you) i'm sure you would get a bit pissed. Need to lighten up folks, go back to listening to Vampire Weekend because its cool.
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It's posted on Stereogum because it's a MUSIC RELATED STORY you fucking idiot. Last time I checked QOTSA were a BAND, moron.
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Tomorrow I'm going to call two people faggots for every one PC crybaby post here.
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You should have seen Mark Kozelek the other day at Highline Ballroom in NYC. A kid was standing in the front row taking pictures. Mind you, he wasn't even using flash or anything, and Kozelek started verbally assaulting the poor kid calling him something like "a dateless loser with no friends."
He went on for a minute or so and it was really uncomfortable for the crowd even. The kid was probably one the bigger fans of Kozelek since he's in the front row and Koz was being a straight up dick. I like Koz and Sun Kil Moon, but he has to improve his personality.
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i like to pay high taxes. Obama = high taxes.. Obama=Cool. Fuck off faggots.
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What Homme said about butt-fucking the kid in front of his friends reminds me of my favorite Mike Tyson quote: "I'll fuck you 'til you love me, faggot!" Only Mike is a lot cooler than Homme will ever be.
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1st
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Josh Homme acts like a fascist dictator. The crowd becomes a lynching mob. Is this rock'n'roll?
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fuck this guy. last time i checked, "QOTSA" weren't exactly setting the musical world on fire. let the idiot and his 102 degree temperature write a couple more subpar albums and then disappear forever.
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Not to condone the use of the word faggot in such an insulting way, but that was entertaining. I can't stand little shits throwing things at concerts. If you don't like the band, don't go see them. I've gotten hit with questionable material enough times when people were aiming at the stage and I think that brat got what he deserved.
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If that's what he really thinks, it's not so much sad that he said it, but that he said it in front of how many kids who now think it's cool to do that.
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Just based on the comments I was expecting that video to be a lot worse.
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You guys! Give Josh Homme a BREAK! He's out there doing something with his life, making worthwhile music for the kids- making a DIFFERENCE in the world! We all sit here with our keyboards and PDAs and blogs and whine about shit, and he's out there breaking his back every day to bring us QUALITY MUSIC. And he has to deal with little shits like this throwing stuff at him! Unbelievable! This guy obviously needs to be cuddled, not disparaged. I'm setting up a Paypal account if anybody wants to donate to the Josh Homme relief fund. Hit me up for details.
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I used to like Josh Homme, but not anymore. He's a miserable baby. You're in a fucking rock and roll band. He should be used to having shit thrown at him. He better get used to it now. What a prick.
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Uhm, Josh? It's a ROCK concert.
You know? That whole 'sex, drugs and rock n' roll' thing?
Surely you remember... Wait, I know, remember that guy 'Nick' something who was in your band?
Yeah! Exactly!
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I was also expecting this to be amazingly worse with all these bashing comments. This is classic Josh Homme, always does this. And it makes the show even more enjoyable to go to. Don't know why everyone so tight-assed about it because even that kid was hella excited.
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Josh Homme doesn't give two buttfucking shit about what a bunch sissyninnyfaggot hipsters think.
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Is it just me or does it sound like he has a Scottish accent in this video?
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No.
And this is fucking hilarious. If that kid has the right to throw something at Josh Homme then Josh Homme has every right to call him whatever he feels like calling him. It would appear that the world is overpopulated by hyper-sensitive lefties. Still, from the reactions to this video, saying the words 'cunting fucking retarded faggot' loudly in a public place is enough to give them all a collective stroke. Easy solution.
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How dare he use the word faggot .. it's inexcusable to generalize a whole group of people by using the name of that group to insult him --- unless that group is a "fraternity" because using terms like "frat-wad" is totally cool and promotes inclusion and sensitivity. Because every single person that you know in a fraternity is a jerk makes it totally OK.
P.s... anyone who wears a baseball cap backwards must also be of low intelligence. It's cool to generalize that group too.. But yeah saying faggot is totally not cool.
Sensitivity in 2008 -- it's a minefield!
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Out of curiosity, does anyone remember being 12 or have 12-year old boys in their lives (nonsexually, of course)? 12-year-old boys are often little assholes. I was a little asshole when was 12 and I'm betting any 12-year-old that thinks it's cool to throw shit on stage is probably a little asshole, too. If I was in the park and a 12 year old boy threw shit at me, you bet your ass I would catch him and yell at him until he cried. It's not good parenting advice, but Josh Homme is not that kid's fuckin' daddy. Hopefully the kid felt really stupid and singled out and cried and learned a valuable lesson and moved on. Like some kind of rock 'n roll after school special.
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So I guess if I came around to your work and started throwing bottles at you, you'd be totally cool with it right? Yeah, of course you would be, you're all indie rock blog superstars - safe in the confines of your apartment in front of your computer.
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I certainly wouldn't fuck with Homme. He's a badass meathead motherfucking rock n roller. He definitely doesn't give a shit about what us hipsters think.
Plus, he grew up in a different time in the 80s and early 90s when using the word faggot wasn't a big deal. I still don't think it is, but obvioulsy everyone esle does. Its just a word and he was trying to prove a point. He is an asshole though, but all rockers are.
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Huh? Badass meathead rock n roller? He's the one that needs a proper ass-kicking. Easy to talk like that when you have a crowd on your side and security, and the kid is 12 years old.
What's even worse is the losers who go see them. My god. I just fired up one of their songs. "regular john". Total shite! Can't believe anyone actually gives them money!
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Shite? Its shit you limey bastard. And 12 and 13 year old boys are little bastards and deserve to be verbally abused for throwing a bottle. Yeah, how many "chavs" have you wanted to yell at while living your life on the that horrible shit island you live on.
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People are definitely overreacting to this video. He had a fever, he was hit by something when playing a show and he lost it. It happens. No one here should actually be saying "suck it up" because anyone would be pissed off if they had shit thrown at them.
People get upset and say things, does this make him a terrible person? Not really, no. Sure I wish he wouldn't throw around the word fag because of its homophobic connotations but what can you do? Stop being over politically correct to the point where you feel justified that he got hit just because he said some bad words.
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That guy is pissed!!! And not just "dude, you banged my sister" pissed, but full-blown "dude, my band has gone down the shitter" pissed!!!
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Sometimes i behave that way when i have a slight fever as well, has nothing at all to do with drugs im sure.
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boo fucking hoo
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I think Josh needs to visit this comment thread and shout epithets at a few of you gits.
<3
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Okay, I wasn't going to watch the video, but I just did, and that really wasn't nearly as bad as you all make it out to be. He said "faggot" a couple of times, but it didn't sound at all like he was trying to be homophobic or anything, just using it as a general "Grr, I'm an angry man!" insult. Don't be so oversensitive, chilluns.
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This is why Josh Homme is a genius. Instead of going after the entire crowd, he just uses his super vision to seek out the perp and take him down. Homme loves his fans, and when he sees someone trying to ruin the show for the rest of them he needs to take control of the situation. So what if he uses some bad language (even if it is or isn't racist)? When you get pissed off, you sometimes lose control of your train of thought. It's better to do it this way rather than jumping into the crowd and punching the shit out of the fan. (This is also why Nick was kicked out of the band: he lost all respect and love for the fans. When that happens, there's no need for a guy like that in your group; no matter how talented he or she may be.)
Also, those who claim that QOTSA is shit: shut the fuck up! QOTSA is one of the very few great rock bands that are in America right now. If you don't like it, go back to listening to your Trickelcrap.
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I think all Josh did here is teach the kid a leason his parents obviously forgot to, don't throw shit at people. Especially if they are quite a bit bigger than you. He's lucky it happened at a concert with security guards all around, if that happened on the street that kid would have gotten the crap beaten out of him. Everyone who thinks a tirade was over reacting, try this test. Go outside, find someone you don't know and throw something at them. In most cases you'll be lucky if all they do is yell. But I guess paying for a concert ticket should give stupid kids the right to do what ever they want, no concequences.
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Word!
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You know, I work at a gay menswear store and my coworkers call people "faggots" all the time. Is it only cool to call people that if you're gay? But I must say, my coworkers don't combine "faggot" with the barrage of other words quite the way Mr. Homme does.
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To answer your question, yes.
http://www.southparkstudios.com/clips/152654/
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When people have been criticising Homme's use of language, others have responded by implying that this is defending the bottle thrower, which isn't the case. I think most people would agree that the bottle thrower deserved to be embarrassed and possibly insulted, but it just wasn't necessary for homophobic language to be used.
And there's definitely a double standard at work- defending Homme by saying it's a rock concert and he can say whatever he likes, but ignoring the fact that he essentially gets extremely worked up over someone throwing a bottle, which could equally be considered part of the job if you're performing on stage. I don't agree with this but it's the view some people are putting across- I think both artist and crowd have a responsibility to behave in a certain way, and in this case both the boy and Homme made themselves look stupid.
I think the video posted of Jack White is a much better example of how to deal with it- he points out the stupidity of the person and embarrasses him in front of the entire crowd, but doesn't resort to pointless cursing, homophobic insults or empty threats which the artist knows they can issue because they've got a security team backing them up. What if the boy had managed to climb onto the stage to face Homme as he suggested? Obviously security would intervene before Homme would ever suffer any attack, or he would punch a stupid young teenager in front of an entire crowd. What a big man. Embarrassing the boy and getting him thrown out by security would have been enough without all the stupid bravado.
And like I said, I absolutely hate people who behave like that at gigs, throwing stuff, spilling drinks, or pushing people, but you just have to expect that you're going to have to put up with it at most large gigs. But I think when the artist behaves as poorly as the audience member then they give up the right to talk about protecting themselves from harm.
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anton newcombe?
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Way to teach a million young fans about gay bashing.
This is like when sebastian bach from skid row wore the "aids kills fags dead" t-shirt.
That ended his gay hating career, hopeful this will end Josh's...
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way to teach a million young fans about gay bashing.
this is like when sebastian bach from skid row wore the "aids kills fags dead" t-shirt.
that ended his gay hating career, hopeful this will end josh's
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"And seriously, if you've grown up as a homosexual, an offhand reference like this should be easy to laugh off as what it is. Surely you would have grown a thick skin and be somewhat accustomed to callously-used epithets."
Oh, well, in that case, it's perfectly fine to use those words in whichever context we choose. And I'm quite sure your answer would have been identical had the issue been racially-charged epithets.
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If people use the word "faggot" with the power taken out of it it's no big deal I don't think. But using it when angry is pretty much the same as using the word "nigga" when angry, as a way of insulting someone.
Generally the idea in this context is "it's bad to be a faggot so I will call you one."
Given the fact that homophobic terms, like racist terms, are still thrown around like this (without any thought to its associations) Homme would, in fact, be correct: it is still a bad time to be black or gay or anything other than what Josh Homme is (white, middle-upper class, male and straight).
Fair enough, Homme-o, you worked hard for your elevated status.
That said, people in their comments here have also said things like "douchebag" which could be considered a sexist term.
We all do it.
Mostly though, who cares? The person in the crowd who threw crap is just a little arsehole.
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This sounds EXACTLY like the Michael Richards' incident at the Laugh Factory minus the racist slurs.
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I'm pretty sure a homophobe isn't going to call his band "QUEENS of the Stone Age".
Throwing debris is assault, the second it hits someone. This is far more dangerous to another human than any single verbal tirade will ever be.
When he introduces songs by saying things like "this song is about fucking", I'm pretty sure Josh Homme doesn't give a shit about what is and isn't "PC".
The fact that the guy lets loose with his emotions is what makes him, and others great musicians. I don't condone this outburst, but I understand it. For those of you who believe we ever could and should strip this behaviour from the planet, wake up to yourselves but if you can't then start dreaming of a sterile, dull and artless world.
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Calm down everyone. Ok, he sounded like a dick, and it was kinda rediculous when the kid turned out to be 12 but he was feverish man.
Bottom line is he isn't a homophobe. Anyone that knows ANYTHING about this band will tell you he named them Queens of the Stone Age to deter the redneck homophobic fans his last band had started to attract - metal meat heads.
Sure he sounded like a dick but it was an off day. get over it.
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You know, we can't all be snarky music blog readers with tons of witty sayings and fun ways to insult people backhandedly while looking superior. The bottom line is this: the guy was sick and some dumb ass was throwing stuff on HIS stage. That's not a fan, that's a "dickless piece of shit with no friends." Everyone needs to quit being so touchy all the time, eloquence and class don't always equate to be the same thing. So he called him a faggot, big deal....it's an ugly word that is overused in the parlance of our times, fucking deal with it. It's a tough world out there, wear a helmet kids.
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My problem with josh, is that he takes something to a level that makes him look like a pussy, I mean standing up to a full grown guy that's causing a problem (REAL PROBLEM) Do what you gotta to but acting like a spoiled bitch sissy to a little kid, your cred goes down, especially when I saw you wet your pants over some chick asking about nick at a show, I mean dude your problem with nick is that he smacked his woman around, but your demeaning humiliation is just as bad, sorry but I'm actually embarrassed for you, just imagine if some dickless Ginger talked like that to your daughter.........What a douche
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Rock on! Big shit he called him a fag. Oh my my. It means an effeminate man, a sissy, a god damn fag. Lets just cow this society down into slavery. Rock is about breaking the rules and freedom to do RIGHT OR WRONG BITCHES!
Free speech, if you dont like it, if words upset you go to starbucks and have a soy latte you brainwashed balless policically correct hypocritical FAGS!
Tom Cruise closet Homo
Bill Clinton not coppin to a bj - FAG
Go live in a museum if you want to protect your dear ears, god damn bunch of sissy hypocrites.
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OK, but it begs to be asked .......... What if someone called YOU a "FAG"?
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In a perfect word when people get upset they might say "hey there little buddy will you please not throw objects at my head?"
but its not a perfect world. so fuck it, resort to calling someone the most demeaning thing that can possibly come out of your mouth and go on with your life.
Lets say your at work and someone throws a shoe at your head. How would you react? Personally, I think he held back, all he did was throw the shoe back at him, I would have stomped his fucking ass.
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I saw him do a similar thing at the Rialto in Tucson in 2005. There was a big fat gang banger in the crowd pushing people around and Josh stopped the show and just reamed him.
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I actually kind of like the fact that our modern day rock stars are getting attitudes, its like Rock used to be. Non-pc. Rock Stars used to be foul mouthed, drug using, Violent asses, who also played music. and many of them are back! Sex Drugs and Rock n' Roll.
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As a woman with two lesbian mothers, I find it disturbing that this man had nothing better to say when he was upset than to imply that he was homosexual, to call him a derogatory term referring to the female genitalia, and to suggest that he lacked a penis and was therefore defective. There are a lot worse things that can be true of a person than homosexuality, not having a penis, or possessing female genitalia. (I've seen Queens perform live and have to wonder what he'd have said to me if I'd thrown something at him. Would he have called me a dick? Told the whole crowd I was missing a vagina?) I think this videoclip says more about the ability of some folks to engage in rational discourse than anything else. Even if Josh Homme were a raging homophobe and the offending fan were a flaming stereotype of gay malehood, the issue was not one of sexuality, but of consideration. And if the whole point was not to communicate but to be funny - well, I still haven't ever understood when hurling crass and cliched insults (not tossing out a pointed witticism at the proper moment a la Winston Churchill) became hilarious.
And for those of you who enjoy a little serious reading, pick up a copy of this month's (or last month's, not sure) Scientific American Mind for some insight on what outbursts of this kind can reveal about the subconscious prejudices that exist in all of us.
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oh come on people ... didn't you ever had a rough day, feeling sick as a dog and then someone throws something at you?
I would rant, curse and probably kicked his sorry face too.
Josh Homme is no homofobic. For christ sake he's one of the founding daddies of Eagles of Death Metal ... you know, a gay boyband ...
Retards.
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My oh my. I am SOOO impressed at what's his face, Josh, was it? He was the self-aggrandized male standing front and center stage, in this video clip, right?
It's supposed to be a music concert, and yet I never heard him sing or play a note.If I ever do ,it will e an accident after that display of f**n eloquence.What an expansive vocabulary he has! Oh he sounded so educated, too. IIf someone where to punch out those baby blues and pearly whites, it's horrifying to think that he'd be left with just his intelligence and charm. MOVE OVER WORLD, ALBERT EINSTEIN HAD NOTHIN' ON THIS GUY. What was his name again?
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I've seen Queens of the Stone Age 4 times and he rips into a random every show. Big deal. If you don't like it don't go.
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The incident subsequently appeared in a YouTube clip and Homme yesterday responded to many blogger and media accusations of being a homophobe:
He wrote:
“Member of the Peanut Gallery:
Some journalists & citizens on the internet & are wondering: Q? Am I a homophobe because I included a slang for gay in with other "acceptable" curse words during a verbal lashing I gave a young concertgoer, after being hit by his shoe, during a show the other day? A= Nope. My gay family & friends, as well as myself, KNOW I am not a homophobe. For years now I've known gay is not a choice; one's skin color doesn't determine one's intelligence level; & red hair doesn't mean you're someone's stepchild. You see, it's not the words, it's their intent. I never said, nor suggested, that being gay is wrong, but apparently, based on your outrage to my flu-infused rant, you do! By that logic... I also told that young whipper snapper I'd have anal sex with him... how can I possibly reconcile these opposing viewpoints? I called him a pussy too. Does it mean I hate our one worlds' collective vagina? I never have been nor intend to be politically correct. That's your cross to bear. To me, that PC world would suck more shit than the porta-potty truck at Glastonbury."
He continues:
"Homophobic? I'm in Queens Of The Stone Age for crissake... You say, "So. Your band name doesn't prove anything." Maybe not. But it's a helluv a lot more definitive than the logic of some watchdog... (sorry canine-American, canine-European, canine-African, canine-Australian & canine-Asian) moralist, keeping score from pure perfectionville? If your glass house is squeegeed that clean & you need to do something, do what the great philosopher Bill Hick's once suggested: - forgive me-. Or don't. I'm not asking for either, OK? I think you should let both of your cheeks go loose so the stick will drop out. Either way I expect that you'll soon find another injustice from your chair, then roll to your bullhorn & point it out to the rest of us... Because you're so above it all. Or If you'll allow me to translate a wish of mine into your PC lingo:
Will you please go have, consensual, sex with yourself.
Pretty please with all natural, carbon offset sugar on top.
Sincerely,
Mr. Missundastood
A.K.A. Joshua, Baby Duck, Jho
Head Choreographer & Do Stuff Corporation's pansexual spokes-thing”
Shut the fuck up, one of the best musicians alive josh is. and fuckin cool, no problem saying whats in his mind.
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Yeah, woo-hoo! Hinder and Nickelback r00Lz! SEX DRUGS N ROCK N ROLL!!!!
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