"If you're not invited, you're a nobody." - PoweR Girl/professional ass-kisser Lizzie Grubman on P. Diddy's White Party "Unless you're in Paul from Interpol's living room and he's like, 'Can I go to bed now?' you haven't made it." - Anonymous "downtown insider" on secret afterparties "I know what it's like to be a celebrity and to be harassed. I'm ...